Archive for 'Weddings'

February 20, 2013
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Favors are by no means a necessity but, if you have extra money in your budget, they are a great way to show your appreciation. The options are endless (a cd, bag of candy, candle, donation to a charity etc.) and almost everything can be personalized, so the task isn’t choosing a favor, but choosing the RIGHT favor. Before making your choice, ask yourself, “Is this worth spending money on and will my guests enjoy/use this?”

Here are a few suggestions…

Choose food, but skip the standard small box of truffles.

Macaroon Wedding Favor
One delicious (and large) macaroon is the perfect two-bite treat.

S'mores wedding favor
A “make your own smore’s kit” is cute and creative.

mason jar wedding favor
Fill a mason jar with hot chocolate ingredients for a favor that’s yummy, easy to take home and adorably packaged.

Choose fun, but make sure it’s really usable.

wedding favor playing cards
Your guests will actually use this deck of playing cards and think of you every time they pull them out to play.

drink koozie wedding favor
“To Have and to Hold and to Keep your Drinks Cold” Clever right? This is another favor that your guests will actually use.

sunglasses as wedding favor
Guests will be able to use sunglasses immediately if you’re having a spring or summer daytime wedding.

Choose function, if you have the time.

recipe book wedding favor
Fill a book with your favorite recipes and/or ask guests, months before the big day, to send you their favorites.

diy succulent favprs
A potted plant is eco-friendly, decorative and can also serve as a place card holder.

olive oil wedding favor
Olive oil is a highly used ingredient that everyone can appreciate.

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February 12, 2013
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This blog! Just kidding… today the wedding of Courtney Dial Whitmore from Pizzazzerie came across our news feed and we were super excited. I’ve been seeing sneak peeks here and there, so when I saw it was featured on Martha Stewart Weddings, we were super excited for this amazing professional (if you didnt know, she is the author behind Push Pops). She has this really great blend of preppy modern style, and she styled her wedding perfectly with black and white stripes with touches of greens. We are in love with her tablescaping… and if you are wondering where you can get those black and white runners… well look no further, they are one of LovelyGirls Events rentals! All photography for this wedding was taken by Tec Petaja.

Courtney use the black and white striped theme all the way thru from her table runners, accents on her centerpieces, the ribbons to hold her napkins, the ribbon that secured her favor boxes, her invitations, her programs, cocktail table linens, drink stirrerts, food picks, her bar menu, and even the plates in which her cake was served (genius!). I do not thnk there was a single item which was not adorned with such a lovely pattern. We loved it!

Here is more black and white striped inspiration with a little bit of something for everyone… enjoy the overload!

Let’s be honest, choosing bridesmaid dresses is far more complicated than simply choosing a color. Unless you have asked identical quadruplets to be in your wedding,  it’s difficult to pick one style dress for women that most likely have different coloring, heights and figures. You also have to keep in mind that most of your friends will never actually wear their bridesmaid dress again. There are options beyond choosing the same dress with dye-able to match shoes.

Same Color, Different Style

There are several designers that allow you to choose different style dresses in the same color. This is perfect when your maids have different body types. You can accommodate your big-busted friend by letting her pick a style that isn’t strapless or the girl who prefers a halter to show off her toned arms. If you’re looking for a dress designer that offers this, we recommend TwoBirds.

If you choose this option, give the maids free range to pick out their own shoes and jewelry. Just make sure to give them direction. This way you know the girls will re-wear the accessories.

one color bridesmaid dress

 

Different Dresses, Same Palette

This is gorgeous, when done well. The maids have the freedom to pick their own dress, in a shade from the color palette you provide. There are a few things to keep in mind; this look works best if all the girls are wearing short or long dresses and the material is similar (you don’t want some girls in a satin and others in cotton). Also, if all of you don’t live in the same area, you might not see the look pulled together until the big day. This element of surprise might be too much for some brides.

different dress, same palette

 

Mix It Up

If you’re bold, black pants and a party top work every time. The look is unified but personalized and of course, comfortable. This is great for an evening wedding and you can always give the girls a palette to work from when choosing their tops.

maids in pants

Skirts? Why not! There’s no reason why you have to dress your bridesmaids in dresses. A skirt is a great option. If you can’t replicate this amazing image, choose a beautiful skirt like this one from J.Crew or this one from Rachel Zoe.

two tone maids

 

DIY Wedding Décor

You want the wedding of your dreams but on a budget.  We hear this all time from brides and decided to pass along tips for some do-it-yourself projects for related to wedding décor.  Below are only a few suggestions offering ways to incorporate color or special details into the table décor.

Table Cloths, napkins and table runners

One way to dress a table on your own is to make napkins, table runners or table cloths (We don’t suggest all three at the same time).  Regardless of if you know how to sew or not, there are several ways to create your table dressing with a bit of recycled or purchased fabric.  If you can’t sew, then use pinking shears to finish the edges if the fabric allows.  Some fabrics such as burlap can have a slightly unfinished edge which adds a rustic feel to tables and makes it an easy to use option.  You can choose to use solid color fabrics or an eclectic mix of patterns.  For a low cost vintage fabric, recycle old sheets found in thrift stores.  Other options include creating your own design using block printing with fabric paint for a custom print or using dye to create an ombre effect on the fabric.  These can be a bit more time consuming but the results may just be worth the extra effort.  The options are endless.

 

wedding tableware

 

 

 

 

 

 

http://www.designmom.com/2012/03/diy-confetti-sprinkled-linen-napkins/
http://bklynbrideonline.com/21335/wedding-inspiration/living-in-ombre/linens?czone
http://rexandregina.com/blog/2010/03/02/burlap-tablescapes/

Custom Flatware

Keeping with the table theme, consider creating your own custom colored flatware by dipping or spray painting the handles of inexpensive purchased or second-hand flatware.  You can paint to match your color scheme as well as use it for an added a pop of color.  Just be careful not to paint the part of the utensil used for eating since most paints are toxic.   Only the handles should be painted for health reasons.

 

 

 

 

 

 

http://creativelychristy.blogspot.com/2010/11/colored-spoons-tutorial.html
http://shannondarrough.com/tablescapes/tablescape
http://www.saniapell.com/athomeblog/diy-craft-projects/fluro-cutlery/

 

Menu Napkins Wraps

Finding a unique way to display a menu on an already crowded table can be daunting.  Make it a quick DIY project by creating a menu that serves a dual purpose.  A napkin wrap with the menu printed on it makes a pretty presentation on the table and gives you an easy, practical way to display the menu to all guests.  There is no need for guests to search the table for a menu because it’s right in front of them and it won’t clutter the table.  Choose to add a unique detail by using a decorative punch border or by adding ribbon.

wedding menu wraps

 

 

 

 

 

 

http://wedding-ink.blogspot.com/2012/07/kathryn-and-justin.html
http://ohsobeautifulpaper.com/2011/06/wedding-details-creative-menu-ideas/
http://blog.catieronquillo.com/2011/06/inspiration-shoot-vintage-travel-with-a-dash-of-france/

Groomsmen are usually the guys that have been there for you through good, bad and yes even the crazy times in your life.  They deserve a groomsmen gift worthy of such a bond.  Instead of the traditional items usually given, considering stepping it up a notch and giving them a classy gift that can stand the test of time.   Here are a few not so typical manly-man gifts we suggest.

Humidor

A wooden humidor box is definitely a statement gift.  Even if they don’t smoke cigars, it’s a great conversation piece for any man cave.   Humidors boxes come in all price ranges so it should fit into just about any budget.

Classic Shave Kit

All men should learn the art of the classic shave.  A men’s shaving kit is a smart and timeless gift.  There are a variety of sets from simple sets with soaps and brushes to expensive more complete sets including razors.

Dopp Kit

A dopp kit is a perfect gift for any man who travels.  A well made dopp kit can last a lifetime.  You can find them in great leather, canvas and faux leather styles to fit any personality.  Many of them can even be personalized with a monogram. You can find these available on Etsy.com in the FelixStreetStudio shop!

Leather iPhone Wallet

Classic leather wallets are a respectable gift to give but why not give something better than a simple wallet.  A leather iPhone wallet that holds an iPhone, cards and cash is the perfect give for hip groomsmen.   It’s trendy but practical, how could any man not love it.

Rocks Glass (with a little company!)

What a better gift than a rocks glass for the boys with whom you have grown up through grade school, high school, and the college years. Signify where you met each groomsman by gifting them a rocks glass with their college emblem. A rocks glass is not complete without a bottle of their favorite whiskey and bourbon, plus whats a rocks glass without the brown stuff?

photography by Kate’s Lens Photography

I know what you’re thinking, it’s 2012 and the word etiquette is rarely mentioned. However, whether you want to call it etiquette or manners, a wedding is an occasion to use both. In today’s casual environment many couple’s add a dress-code to their invitation. Mostly this is for those people who think wearing a baseball cap, cargo pants or flip flips are classy choices. Yes, I have actually attended weddings where guests have worn those items.

Before you walk out to door make sure you remember that there are very few opportunities to get dressed up. Take advantage! Always think about the time of the wedding and the location. What you can wear to an outdoor wedding is different than a wedding in a ballroom.

 

White Tie
This is the MOST formal and the least-common. I’m fairly certain only royalty and celebrities attend white-tie events but if just in case you meet Prince Harry…Fellas should wear a tailcoat, a formal white shirt, white vest and tie and white gloves. I know, crazy! Ladies should wear a formal floor-length evening gown.

white tie

 

Black Tie
Since White-Tie events are few and far between, Black-Tie is considered the most formal dress code. Black-Tie weddings are usually held in the evening so it’s a fabulous opportunity to get in touch with your inner Fergie and dress “G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S.” Excuse my outburst. Guys should wear a black tux (hence the name). Ladies can choose between a formal floor length gown or a short cocktail dress. When you’re deciding what to wear, think about the venue. If it’s more on the casual side, then a black suit and cocktail dress are the way to go.

black tie

black tie for women

 

Black Tie Optional (or Formal)
There isn’t a lot of difference between this and Black Tie. It’s still a formal dress-code. Men can wear a dark suit instead of a tux and they aren’t expected to wear a bow tie. Ladies should still wear a dress.

 

formal suit

Semi-Formal
This is the hardest dress-code to decipher because “semi-formal” seems to mean something different to everyone. Make your decision based on the location and time of day of the wedding. When in doubt, choose something dressier. It’s better to look over-dressed than under-dressed. Ladies can choose between a cocktail dress or a blouse and skirt. Men should still wear a suit but it doesn’t need to be dark or evening wear.

semi formal

 

 

 

It’s customary (and thoughtful) to give the ladies of your wedding party a little something to thank them for being part of your big day. If we’re being honest, you’re also thanking them for supporting you during a Bridezilla moment you may had along the way. There are practical choices like paying for part of their Bridesmaid attire (shoes, jewelry etc.), their flight to the wedding or accommodations but, if you’re leaning more towards a tangible gift, here are some ideas for showing your best friends they are “like good a bra; always lifting you up and never leaving you hanging.”
1: Dani Notes monogrammed iPhone cover |daninotes.com
This monogrammed iPhone cover is not only adorable and functional but it’s an item your friends will look at every day. The pattern selection is fun and you can choose between an initial or first name monogram.
2: Danielle Stevens bracelet | maxandchloe.com
Following the same theme, but slightly more personal, a piece of jewelry can last forever. This bracelet is a beautiful and timeless keepsake.
3: Stephanie Johnson cosmetic case | stephaniejohnson.com
Multiple gifts are always better than 1. Fill a cosmetic case with a combination of items, ranging from practical to luxury; Rosebud Salve, Essie nail polish, Hanky Panky undies and your favorite fragrance.
4: Signature picture frame | wayfair.com
What is a better way to remember the fun at the Bachelorette party or another moment you all shared together? After you give the girls their gifts, have a silver pen on hand so all of you can sign the frames.
5: Plum Pretty Sugar robe set | www.plumprettysugar.com
Not only will the “getting ready” pictures look fabulous, but a stylish robe is something every lady can use and most likely wouldn’t think to buy themselves.
With dessert and weddings on the brain, and their always on the brain, we were intrigued by the latest wedding trend: bars – dessert bars, popcorn bars, doughnut bars, cookie bars, sundae bars, smores bars, waffle bars, and cigar bars (had to throw one in there for the boys!). These options are endless and the list goes on. What makes this concept so perfect? More is always better when it comes to treats. Check out some of our favorite “bar” ideas.
For a spring or summer wedding, consider a sundae and ice cream bar. Make your own sundae bars are perfect for these warmer months shindigs. Think about the amazing (and affordable) selection you could provide – sprinkles, cherries, whipped cream, ooey goeey marshmallow sauce, cookies (think ice cream sandwiches!), and any thing you could imagine on an ice cream sundae. For a refreshing and lighter choice, offer a few flavored sorbets as well. If you’re big day is during a spring month, integrate some of the seasons best fruits. Read the rest of this entry …
March 21, 2012
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Top 5 Tips When Planning Your Wedding
The ring goes on your finger, your eyes fill with tears and the two of share a beautiful moment together as you mark the beginning of the next step in your lives. OK, that moment is passed and now it’s time to get your planning on.
#5 – Like a Game Show, Know Your Stuff
When we started inquiring about locations, we’d call or send venues casual (and excited e-mails) that said, “Hi! We are interested in having our wedding at ________ sometime in September. Would you mind sending pricing and information?” The responses were always the same; “What in your wedding date? Will you be having your ceremony on-site? How many people? What time?” Woah! I have no idea! First of all, I always thought you chose a month or season when you wanted to get married and your date depended on when the venue was available in that time period. Apparently, many couples have a specific date in mind ahead of time. Who knew?
Tip: Prior to visiting or contacting venues, talk with your fiancé and make a preliminary guestimate on head count, date etc. It will help speed up the process and get you more precise information.
#4 – Create Pinterest Limits
I can’t tell you how many times I hear people say, “I can’t imagine what planning would have been like if Pinterest was around when I was getting married.” Well, they don’t realize that, when it comes to weddings, Pinterest is a blessing and a curse. Yes, you’ll browse hundreds of amazing images and ideas but think about what that does to decision-making. Every time I think, “this is what I want,” I see a pin that makes me second-guess my decision. I am currently stuck between rustic/bohemian and vintage/romantic décor themes. It’s too hard to decide!
Tip: Give yourself Pinterest limits. If you’re recently engaged and haven’t really started planning then browse away! However, if you’ve already started planning don’t go crazy by over-immersing yourself in ideas. Login from time-to-time to see fresh visuals but that’s it!
#3 – The “W” in Wedding Doesn’t Stand for Woman
I met up with a friend and her fiancé last year, just as they had started making their initial wedding plans. As we chatted and I asked questions it was clear that her fiancé didn’t know any of the answers. In fact he had a surprised look on his face after everything she said. When I ran into her one month before the wedding she was running around finalizing everything and he was playing golf. She had a breakdown in the middle of Shop Rite. P.S. The fella referenced in this story is not a jerk. The bride never asked him to help, so he assumed she wanted to plan everything by herself.
Tip: It’s completely understandable and fine if the bride wants to plan the wedding alone, but that doesn’t mean she needs to be alone while she plans the wedding! If the groom isn’t opinionated about center-pieces or doesn’t really care about invitations, that’s fine. However, don’t miss out  on spending time together in the process.
#2 – “Don’t Worry so Much About Supposed to.”
Have you ever seen the film, Chocolat? I love this quote and it is a useful thing to remember when wedding planning. These days couples are making new traditions. Think you need to have a sit-down dinner even though you want to throw a cocktail party? Think again!
Tip: As the quote says, don’t worry so much. There are no rules or “supposed to’s” anymore!
#1 – Repeat After Me, “It’s One Day”
Weddings can not only be expensive, but they can stressful. It’s a day that you think about forever and then all of a sudden it’s here. This concept causes a lot of pressure, especially for the bride, to create perfection. You’ll feel like you need to be in the best shape and look the prettiest, that the food, décor and music need to be spot-on and that if it rains or snows the world is over.
Tip: It is (almost) exactly 6 months to my wedding day. A few months ago I had an epiphany; I am about to marry the man of my dreams and it doesn’t matter what shape I’m in, whether the food at the reception is soggy or if there is torrential downpour.
For the home decor enthusiast
When I think about guestbooks I’m reminded of a Sex and the City episode where Miranda’s wedding duty was to “man” the guest book. In the episode she’s standing next to a book on a table, with a pen in her hand saying, “sign the guestbook?”. Gone are the days where a guestbook consists of a book and a pen. These days couples are breaking boundaries of creativity and being inspired by what they love… music, photography, home decor, and using their guestbooks to incorporate them into their guests into their daily lives.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words; here, your guests can have the best of both worlds. Set up a table with a Polaroid camera, blank-paged guestbook, and several pens. Each guests or couple can have their own page where they will post their Polaroid portrait and have ample room to write their best wishes, advice to, or favorite memories of the newlyweds. Larger weddings will require a larger guestbook (or just more paper) while a photo booth (DIY?) could take the place of a Polaroid camera. Not only will you have a special note from your loved ones, but you’ll have priceless pictures of them the very momoment they wrote it!
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